How premature ejaculation affects men’s lives?
Premature ejaculation is a medical condition described as recurrent or persistent ejaculation with low stimulation right after penetration. In other words, this is a situation in which a man ejaculates long before his partner is satisfied. In many cases, men ejaculate few seconds after penetration. Unfortunately, this is a very common problem today and according to some statistics 2 out of 10 men experience premature ejaculation. Men who were lucky enough to avoid such problems often make jokes with those who have PE problems, but the truth is that this is not something to joke about because premature ejaculation has strong negative effects on men’s lives. Affected men experience different psychological problems that can affect their everyday life too. Now let’s highlight some of these negative effects.
First of all, we all know how important confidence is for any individual, especially for men. If we are not confident we can’t expect to make progress at work or to be successful when we are trying to impress a woman we like. Lack of confidence affects the realization of our life goals too. In case you are dealing with premature ejaculation for a long period of time, then you probably experience low self-confidence not only when it comes to keeping your partner satisfied. Premature ejaculation can make you feel empty and incomplete and it will definitely change the opinion of the people around you. Needless to say, you will probably stop thinking about sex especially with your partner because you will both end unsatisfied. Obviously, your partner should have understanding for this problem and try to help you, but as we already said if the problem is present for a long time they will start losing patience and you will suffer another blow to your fragile confidence.
Next, you can also expect negative effects on your self-esteem. There is a clear connection between confidence and self-esteem. If the self-esteem you have is going down, it will take some time to get back on track. However, in case you are suffering from premature ejaculation, you won’t be able to get back because the source of the problem will continue to exist. This is some kind of vicious circle that slowly ruins your life.
If you keep thinking about this problem, you will have difficulties finishing your everyday tasks too. Instead of focusing on your job, you will think about your inability to function as a normal human being. On top of that, this is not a problem that you can talk about freely with anyone you know, so you have to keep these feelings to yourself which makes the situation worse.
In the end, we should not spend much time explaining how bad this is for your sex life. From an activity that brings pleasure and satisfaction, sex can be turned into something scary and uneasy.
Men with premature ejaculation also experience shame, embarrassment, frustration, depression and general dissatisfaction. That’s why it is highly recommended to take some action whenever you notice the signs of premature ejaculation.